Why I normally don't get along with Scorpio MEN & selfish men most of all!

Ive noticed for quite a sustained period of time..that I don't seem to get along with scorpio men. They aren't really LIKE ME in many ways.. they are too staid, dull, intense, jealous, secretive, and crazy. You would think.. who would get along with someone that exhibited all those traits? Girls..be careful. They will always project onto you, and truly believe that its you that has the problem, not them. I would say this is a less evolved man. Between Doug freaking out and ranting AT ME because I wanted him to stay at my apartment while I worked, so I wouldnt lose money, to J saying "fuck you" to me..because I didnt "feel grateful for the gift of the phone chargers" they can be really mannerless and mean.  As mean as it gets...
 
The entire reason I stayed home..was that the GIFT of the phone charger which is NOT the right phone charger for my cell phone, overheated my bathroom wiring, creating a ricochet effect, frying the overhead lighting and burning out wires... This happened because someone wanted to cut corners.. well.. you can see the patterns forming here. Why would I be "grateful" for a gift that caused SO MUCH damage in my life..and has resulted in the loss of four days pay, which I will never see.. I guarantee you that!  and thoughtless uncaring men will not even help me out of.. when they caused it? Can you imagine someone actually telling me I need to be grateful for a gift that caused all hell to break loose, which resulted in crying, anxiety, upset, and intense worry that my cats would be FRIED IF I WENT TO WORK??!?!?!? While the sender lived life to the fullest... planning on having sex with me, at some undesignated, but affirmed (to himself!) space-time coordinate in the Future!!!!

There are really some CLUELESS people out there. I don't know if they are just so into themselves that they can't think of anyone else but themselves, of if they just can't put themselves into my shoes. I asked J if he could put himself into my shoes, he said "I do it with everybody". Wrong answer and not true. If for one MINUTE a man "could put himself into my shoes" he would have IMMEDIATE understanding of my dilemma, pains and upset, and DO SOMETHING TO HELP OUT. Since when is it a CRIME and a negative thing to extend a helping hand? He just said tonight that he only has "two friends he can count on". WELL I SEEM TO HAVE NONE IN THE END!! (EXCEPT for B of course!) Ive been talking to J, as I have with others, for a year..and none of them are people I can count on. They are like GOOD TIME CHARLIES.  Yes, they sit there like lumps on a log and listen to my life and.. NOT FOR ONE MOMENT..help.
 
These are the scorpio men that I am getting to know. At least Doug HAS been there and has helped..and he has been upset that so many men want a PIECE OF MY ASS.. or want to BE WITH ME in a romantic relationship..but they do NOTHING of physical action to SHOW AND PROVE they care and can relate to me.  Once Doug raved to me that he could not believe that someone who told me he was interested in me, and made as much money as he claimed to have made, does not lift ONE FINGER in any way to truly make a positive change or relief in my life.. yet spends his time talking to me about how he wants to be in my life.. in different ways.. and talking about .. or alluding to ..how he would like to be physically close to me.. or have sex with me.

Its not that I demand that he "help me". Its that, if he is a truly caring person, he ought to be offering. I guarantee you that!

I have to agree this is not only odious.. but a type of person that would probably use me and throw me out. I have not seen any care or compassion. I have talked to people on the phone and heard them say "I am giving, I give you my time", with no thought that I am giving them my time, my free hypnosis, my compassion, my loyalty, my help, my humor, my attention, my entertainment, my thoughts and words and deeds, and yes, even physical greeting cards! They make me sick. What happened to the REAL MEN who would stop FUCKING TALKING ABOUT FUCKING ME and do something real and meaningful for me INSTEAD!  Where the hell are they. Im sure they are out there.. they are just not in my presence yet. The way a man treats me is being clearly noticed by yours truly, I do not become REAL WHEN HE MEETS ME.. or I meet him.. I already AM REAL.. ASSHOLES!
 
What all this has to do with Scorpio men.. is that I am around a few right now. They are too intense and too obsessive in the beginning and distanced and detached later.. they do not show their emotions, they hide.. as if that is any way to express oneself, their intense feelings are kept under a firm lid, and the other person who is the OBJECT of their affections never finds out till way later. They are very dramatic, cannot see the forest for the trees, the long end of it, the final outcome and the grand finale because of the fact that they are so very solidly stuck in the present. They need to get out of their own way and lose the TUNNEL VISION and think of someone ELSE besides THEMSELVES!!!!! In the end..the reason they act this way.. is that they are just afraid little boys.