Saturday, June 12, 2004

Experiences with online men

One only wonders if the "Online male" is the same male you see walking down the street, in your office, at Starbucks, and seen anywhere else on the face of this globe. Many professional men abhor the net, and are quick to tell me, from having answered my personal, that they are NOT the typical online male, that they DO NOT chat online, and they are "very very busy busy" men. All this sounds very insecure as they repeat that they do not want to have anything to do with being lumped into that twisting human pile of predatory snakes that is the typical male. The wanton, confused, insecure hummingbird pollenating the online flowers.

What is more odious than someone overly confident? You've got to wonder what they are hiding. Noone can be THAT confident. I would never want to be that fake. There is this guy I recently met online, he claimed he wasn't "like other men" (something I hear pretty often) and proceeded to tell me how men are, as if I were totally naive and had to be informed. He continued to tell me of these predators, and later on in the phone conversation, he HIMSELF began to ask me what I wore to bed at night! He asked many inappropriate queries. I happen to have a sarcastic at times, racous humor..and I wasn't sure if he was joking or serious. While it was happening, I played it off as a joke. He made other off color comments such as "could you help out an asexual man?". I didnt know what he meant at the time.. later I wondered if he was referring to himself. I know he had been celibate for a while. By the time I hung up the phone, I was angry. I don't feel I DESERVE this sort of shabby treament. Im a woman of virtue, class and deserve to be respected. There seems to be too many sharks out there. Sometimes my humor is easy to see as blue, and I think many men play on that.. and twist it so that they can insert a lascivious question. Personally, Im fed UP with dealing with these mental midgets. Im not taking it anymore!!!


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